Question:

im having a baby and i 19 my boyfriend thinks its a mistake.?
what do i do i cnt tell my parents b/c my sister had a baby when she was 17 yrs old and the guy left her. I dont want to disapoint my parents. they told me if i had ever got pregnit they would strow me out of the house. my boyfriend says he loves me n the baby, but i dont know if its true or not please tell me what to do.

Answers:

A-Best: 1. Don't panic 2. Tell your mom.. she's going to find out anyway if you are keeping it. You will need her help cause you're still underage. 3. If your boyfriend says he's ok with it, then you have to go with that. You should have a long talk with your mom even though she is saying she will kick you out. But all of you (boyfriend included) need to sit down and figure out how you will make this work. But you need to also think about getting a job if you don't already have one. I would really encourage you to take the time to go to college. You can do it online now and in order to have a good job and support yourself and the baby, you need a good education.  

A: im 19 and pregnant too, my mom said if i ever got pregnant before marriage she would disown me, im not married now and my mom is super super excited for the baby to come!  

A: www.whattoexpect.com This website can give you losts of info....and many ladies to talk to.  

A: don't worry i first got pregnant when i was 16 and had my lil girl at 17 then had a lil boy at 18 and had a m/c at 19 im now 20 and still with my kids dad i was on the streets when i first got pregnant but everything is fine now don't worry you'll get though this and if i was you i would stsrt looking for a house of your own  

A: You are going to have to tell your parents. There's no way you can keep that from them forever. They shouldn't be as upset with you because you're not in high school anymore and you're an adult now. As long as you have a job and can pay for your own stuff, your parents shouldn't threaten to throw you out. You need to tell them and if they threaten to throw you out, I would tell them they're supposed to be supportive and be there for you no matter what and that you're carrying their grand child and that they will regret it if they kick you out because later on when your baby is older, the truth will come out and they will feel terrible for what they did. Its good that your boyfriend says he loves you and everything and that he's being supportive about the baby. He will help you through this. If your parents really do kick you out, live with your boyfriend if you can or you guys can get full time jobs and move out on your own. You can email me if you need someone to talk to. I've been through it.  

A: well im 19 and im 26 weeks pregnant.. it is going to be a long hard road n your parents just threaten you in hopes you'll avoid your sisters mistake.. you need to just be honest with them.. i they kick you out then you'll find out how true your bfs words are and if not there are tons of programs out there who help young single mothers with housin n gettin themselves on their feet... telling my parents was the hardest part of the pregnancy so far and i was so scared although i made it ten times worse by waitin.. they were hurt that they didnt find out till i was close to 3 months pregnant. They are very religious which was my biggest issue but their reaction was soo much better than i ever expected.. and i really wish i would of told them sooner. You'll be suprised at the love and support that comes from the people you least expected.. i wish you the best of the luck and once you get over the intial stress i promise you will be THRILLED at the thought of a child... although its completely normal to be scared..  

A: Do what you thinks best. u can get your own little aoartment be independant your a grown woman :D